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hmm You do get the occasional pagan who has nasty energy, or who has some sort of hidden agenda, but the same as in any group of mainstream people. I'm also in the massage therapy business and some of the centres and clinics can have more than their share of big egos or money driven agendas, for instance, most pagans are pretty average seeming. For instance, this evening I was at the monthly Pagan Pub night. Most people there were a mix of youngish and middle aged. Most had fairly ordinary jobs like commercial artist, chef, teacher, nurse, etc. When your livelihood is based on some New Age or vaguely pagan thing you may have a financial interest in promoting that specific technique or whatever. But most pagans are enthusiastic amateurs. Their beliefs in energy work, for instance, isn't money driven so is more self-less and honest in general. But they probably have less skill and knowledge so could possibly be misled by a teacher who was promoting an approach to energy work that netted the teacher more money.

Most groups of witches, whether churches or covens teach for free, so eliminate the financial aspects. I've always said that the New Age movement is as money driven as the Christian televangelists or private healthcare. This still leaves ego and the desire for power over others, or reputation/ feeling special as reasons to misuse psychic abilities or energy work skills. But diva behaviours tend to dissipate over time as the individual matures. There are still going to be a few jerks who never grow out of it, but I'm quite sure that within Christianity and other more mainstream religions they have as many jerks as we do if not more.

The fluffy bunny stereotype is so prevalent not because there are so many fuzzy bunnies but because the fuzzy bunny types are generally much louder and more noticeable. A lot of them delight in being noticed and a few are actually in everyones' faces. But typically pagans are low key about their spiritual beliefs. I have the suspicion that most people know and hang out with pagans but aren't aware that their friend or co-worker is pagan. In this sense, the stereotypes about pagans are quite inaccurate. All of the above is of course my humble opinion.

Deva (Buddhism), a superhuman being in traditional Buddhist cosmology

Deva (Hinduism), a favorable supernatural entity in Hinduism

Deva (New Age), spiritual forces or beings behind nature

I presume that this is not the Deva you're looking for.

Funny thing about stereotypes; the label is acquired or used by people without sufficient thinking skills to come up with their own definitions. That little goth girl might just like black clothing. You're making some rather broad assumptions.

It's kind of hard to tell from your post just who is giving out bad vibes and who is receiving them; practitioners or clients. It's been my observations that people who expect bad things generally find them. Anyone coming to receive energy work and who is convinced it's not a good thing is going to be screwing with any good vibes before they get started. As for freaking out a bit; it can be overwhelming when you realize you actually have some positive effect on someone; overwhelming because with that ability comes an awareness of great responsibility.

I've grown more tolerant of the fluffies and devas lately; the truly motivated ones generally mature, their perspectives deepen, the nervous energy and enthusiasm mellows into a genuine warmth. I've even grown more tolerant of the judgmental ones who often seen to project their own worst fears or doubts about themselves onto others. Karma is a bitch and either they learn to mellow out or all that negativity comes back to settle on their own shoulders. Ouch.

Though the 'Diva' is one of the more noticable pagan stereotypes (mostly because you noticing them is the goal of every Diva). Thyey are (to me) neither the most annoying or most dangerous so I safely ignore them and they, in turn, ignore me.

Once upon a time we had a list (might be in the Reference Section) of the 'Field Guide to Pagans' or something like that. have a gander in there and at your next gathering hand our score cards and see who can find all the 'species'